Why Aussies Didn’t Win Me Over

Australia is a big beautiful country packed with amazing natural wonders and cosmopolitan charm. Unfortunately, like most places, it also has its share of assholes. For the most part, Aussies didn’t win me over. Here’s why:

Bali Bogans

My experience with Australians not winning me over began long before I had set foot on the continent. I’ll backpack. While travelling Europe, in 2006 I came across many loud, drunk, and of obnoxious Aussies – but to be fair, I was probably right there with them at the time.

Bali Booze Bus
To be fair, we probably fit in more than we thought

Still, I should mention I noticed this trend more and more up until coming to a head while visiting Bali for the first time. This is where the term ”Bogans” finally made sense. Bars and clubs in Kuta spilt over with loud, drunk, and in-your-face Aussies. Don’t get me wrong, every country has its own version of these tourists, including Canada. Just go to a party town in Mexico to see what I mean. Still, for my first impression of sorts right before I went to Australia for the first time, it set a tone.

Customer Service?

While travelling through Australia I noticed a trend. Customer service was hit and miss and those with a little power, use it. With no tipping in Australia, I assumed that service in restaurants would be lacking. This, of course, was not the case. What I did notice is when a bar or restaurant was closing, you had to get the f@ck out. This went as far as getting told repeatedly that the restaurants we were in were closing ~30-45 minutes beforehand.

We were also given stink eye when trying to order a beer or coffee at a place that was closing in 30 minutes. I can appreciate that the people working there just want to go home and later found that weekends are at double-time so can also appreciate that the owners want them gone too. Still…

The worst of when Aussies didn’t win me over customer service wise came from the airline industry. While waiting on the tarmac at the gate on an already delayed flight I got up to use the bathroom to release the litre of liquid that I was not allowed to take on the flight. To my surprise (and horror), I found the lavatories were locked before taking off.

Flight attendant: “Return to your seat. We are about to take off”
Me: “They’re still people boarding the plane.”
Flight attendant:” We are about to take off. Take your seat now.”
Me (looking at an elderly couple struggling to find their seats): “Seriously?”

I questioned if this was a bad joke. It was not. After a conversation where I felt like a kindergarten student asking for permission to go pee pee, I was allowed to use the facilities, with a stern warning of ”be quick” of course. I returned to my seat and waited for another 15 to 20 minutes till we left the gate.

A similar scenario happened on a flight to Sydney where water was allowed onboard but hot beverages were not. ”Oh you can’t take that on the plane, It’s too hot” Has anyone ever enjoyed a seven dollar hot coffee that you chugged out of spite?

Then there were the ticket agents who took their jobs way too seriously. While checking into a flight to Sydney an all-too-serious agent couldn’t find us on the flight.  When asked what time our flight was I replied

“The one at 12:05?”
Agent (with a smug look): “Oh, you’re at the wrong airport. NEXT!”

With a slam of our passports on the counter, she literally waved the next person in the line to the counter. Granted it was our stupidity for going to the wrong airport however her total lack of compassion and helpless nature was laughable.

Then, when trying to leave the country when our check-in agent almost didn’t let us go.

Agent: “New Zealand requires proof that you’re leaving the country. You can’t fly there one-way”
Me: “We aren’t. We are flying out on another ticket.”

Now, this sounds innocent but it was the way she said it. It was in the tone and demeanour as if to say ”Got you f@ckers! You ain’t going nowhere!” When we finally pulled up our info (something she thought we were lying about?) she noticed we were flying back through Sydney on our way home.

Agent: “You need another visa”
Me: “No, we don’t.”

She was firm that we were in the wrong and when she finally realized that was not the case she offered no apology. Just a loud “NEXT!”


– Not all locals were unfriendly

Getting to the airport on that later flight through Sydney should have been another opportunity for Aussie’s to win me over, but no go. In the lobby of our layover hotel, they had a kiosk to book a shuttle bus to the airport. Super convenient? Fast forward to the very early a.m. and us checking our watches with our bags in the lobby. “Are you guys waiting for something?” The hotel clerk finally asked. When I told him we had booked the bus through the kiosk he actually said ”Oh, you shouldn’t have done that”


Clerk: “They’re not that reliable. I have been meaning to put up a note on that machine to say not to use.”


Upon request, he put me on the phone with the company.

Agent: “Did you confirm your pickup mate?”
Me: “Yes. I purchased tickets last night.”
Agent:“Oh no. You still need to confirm it 48 hours in advance.”
Agent:“Just because you bought a ticket doesn’t mean the bus will come.

Again, WTF.

After questioning this method and, after getting no compassion or understanding that we were running the risk of missing our 16-hour flight, the agent said the bus would be there in 5-10 minutes. This, of course, meant 3 blocks away at a different hotel and 5-10 minutes meant never. After a mad dash and waiting 30-minutes, we headed to the metro.


Chivalry is Dead

This one is for the ladies.

I had heard that Aussie men are a touch chauvinistic but only experienced this 1st hand in Australia. I watched in awe as the male host on a local morning show said and did the most shocking things on air. There was a debate on providing expecting mothers with easy access parking to which these men were having none of it.

Then there was the construction worker that ran Erin over while walking down a busy sidewalk. Her natural reaction was a barely audible “tisk.” This dingo, with super-dingo hearing, took exception to this.

“You alright?!” he barked in a tone that really said “You are fu*cking alright! Get over it you twat!” He was now staring at her with rage in his eyes…so I slapped him…with kindness.

Jokes. I wasn’t there for this one. Erin was walking to meet up with me and felt his stare as she shrugged it off and walked away.

Don’t Get me Wrong

Before you jump all over me for being soft, sensitive, or a travelling idiot let me say that I fully recognize my bonehead travel goofs that caused some of these customer service interactions. I totally get that I put myself in those situations, for the most part. What I find odd is I have travelled to 70+ countries and nowhere else did I experience the same zero-f@cks-given attitude in similar situations. So I have to ask why?

And of course, I met many great Australians, some of which have become great friends. I stayed with wonderful people in Adelaide who went out of their way to show us their wonderful part of Australia. I also went out of the way to visit a long time friend in Canberra…because why go to Canberra, says everyone not from Canberra.

These great Australians are the many. The few I experienced did, however, ruin the rest. I do have Kiwi friends who warned me of these tendencies and I did binge watch the “Flight of the Conchords” before the trip which didn’t help either. Watch the “Keitha” episode to really appreciate the stereotypical differences.

So I suppose I had some pre-seeded expectations which put a spotlight on these situations. If I am off on these thoughts then prove me wrong Australia.

What say you? Do you relate to why Aussies didn’t win me over? Or do you have experiences that are the complete opposite? Let’s hear it! Comment below.

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18 replies on “Why Aussies Didn’t Win Me Over”
  1. Avatarsays: Spartan 117

    Fair enough. Aussies are two-faced c@nts and all they know is the bush, racism, not being on their word and worshipping feminism…

  2. Avatarsays: Holy

    Yep, they look good, but there’s always a way they’re gonna f*ck you up.. they are nice so they can abuse you.. there’s so much more than just travel f*ck-ups..

    I don’t know if you checked the latest political issues but it’s mind blowing to be so delusional about being the bestest..

  3. Avatarsays: Nicole

    I live in Australia since 2010 and honestly, Australian people are horrible, shallow, greedy and filthy. They don’t give a damn about their environment. Streets are dirty everywhere and in general people are ignorant. If I could leave I would today but my girls are here and I want to be near them.

    1. Avatarsays: Nicole Gillessen

      Oh and by the way….yes, this is a very generalized description of how I perceive them. Of course there are a lot of decent people here too!

  4. Avatarsays: K

    You are spot on! I have travelled to quite a few countries, and Australia hands-down has the most nastiest people. Arrogant, self-righteous, racist, rude, loud, obnoxious, self-centered, narcissistic, and the list goes on. I have lived here for 8 years and that’s the dumbest decision I have ever made. I hate myself so much for it. I just wish I could leave this down under wasteland right now!

  5. Avatarsays: Katy Dayy

    Yea Aussie’s are awful people, I refer to them as Ausholes! They are very racist, misinformed, dumb and racist. I unfortunately had to live there for 3 years due to a work contract, getting an Australian to work is harder than herding cats. They are all absolute morons and a good 30 years behind North America and the UK.

    Don’t waste your time or money in this septic tank of a country; once a prison island always a prison island.

  6. Avatarsays: Robert

    You know I am Australian and have moved overseas. And to be honest I did not realize what rude obnoxious self centered arrogant rude pretentious self deifying wankers they are. And did I say darn rude. Intil I went overseas. I am so ashamed of what Australians have become and as an ex-Patriot I wish to apologize for the way Australians act to everyone. We didn’t used to be like that. I don’t know when or how it happened.
    I am so ashamed that thanks to the fact my parents are actually British I have changed my citizenship. I am now a Pommie.

      1. Avatarsays: ToddHoward

        I’m sorry for what you had to endure, Shaun. I really mean that.
        But… life is full of lessons. Sadly, this won’t discourage the terrible behaviour/attitude/culture of Australians.

  7. Avatarsays: ToddHoward

    All Australians are bigoted, bootlickers that would prefer marrying a garbage can, rather than being decent people. A bunch of self-centred elitists that really have no history other than being literal cast-offs of the worst of mother England.
    Australians make Americans look like Saints, and I rarely put America in a good light. But in this case? Heck yeah, I would gladly repeat myself.

  8. Avatarsays: Sandeep

    I am from India. My experience with Australians has always left me a bit short-changed and betrayed. I think they are a nation of TROLLS. They’re never serious about anything except where monies involved.

    It took me a few backpacking trips to understand the real nature of the Aussie beast.

    India is the 3rd or 4th largest trading partner of Australia at the moment. But if you fly from an Australian airport, someone from a tiny unimportant place like Slovenia or Uruguay is treated with more respect than an Indian passport-holder.

    But again we Indians don’t treat each other with much respect. That is why we receive such shabby treatment from others. So it’s not right for me to be complaining about these Aussies.

  9. Avatarsays: Lily

    Perfectly accurate comment. They are awful people. They use this fake myth of being friendly and laidback etc, it’s exactly that a myth. Cold, detached, bullying assholes. Beyond this they are uncultured as hell and rough. My husband and I are DESPERATE to move. The country is not that nice either, in terms of facilities, shops, infrastructure it is old, outdated, dirty.

  10. Avatarsays: Sergey

    It’s 100% accurate and what everyone above said. Some Aussies are rude cowards, they will insult you under their breath because they can’t be outwardly bigoted. They claim to be laid-back, inclusive, free country, etc but I feel like the whole place is really just 100 years behind the rest of the world. Even a simple “Good morning” can’t be reciprocated sometimes.

    Worst of all is criticism – if you’re not Aussie you will never be allowed to criticise anything they do – they all band together to insult you back.

  11. Avatarsays: Ed

    Yep, as of 2022 they’re arseholes. Melbourne to Adelaide to Darwin to Sydney. For the US people take the most obnoxious New Yorker mix in the locals from “Deliverance” and you got an Aussie.

  12. Avatarsays: Simon

    We’ve been living in Australia for the past few years after spending most of our lives travelling the world. Yes, the people in Australia are by far the worst we’ve encountered anywhere in the world. They are so shallow, obnoxious, tightly wound, unfriendly, and plain rude. It’s hard to fathom why. The country is beautiful and the quality of life is high. Too many people have been sold the lie that Australians are friendly and laid back when in fact they are the exact opposite…

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